When Carrie Fisher passed away on December, 27th the talk immediately turned to her career and memorable roles and the great kind of person and spirit she was, and rightfully so. As a massive Star Wars fan, I felt the enormity of the loss, but her acting career has not been what I admired most about this child of Hollywood royalty. What I think will be the most missed aspect of this woman was her ability to speak out about her faults and struggles in a way that erased any stigma associated with her addiction struggles and her constant battle with mental health. Carrie Fisher spoke fearlessly about issues that most people go to great lengths to avoid talking about, and she never needed to wait for a tragic incident to happen for her to unleash her thoughts on those matters.
Fisher never shied away from speaking about her intense battles with drug and alcohol addiction as well as her struggles with depression and bipolar disorder and was extremely open about her use of electroconvulsive therapy. As someone who is very familiar with both of these struggles both personally and with those close to me, I found this to be somewhat of a comfort in difficult times. She was never short of words on any subject, and her incredible wit and ability to put things in perspective were a comfort to those that had a hard time talking about their struggles.
For her great perspectives on her life, family and struggles one only needs to watch her one-woman show that aired on HBO, Wishful Drinking back in 2010. So while the whole galaxy continues to mourn its princess some of us will miss the things that made her an excellent and gorgeously flawed person. That is what makes her loss all the sadder and while the images of her cinnamon roll hairdo and sprawled out in the infamous gold bikini are what will always be remembered visually that’s only because what was in her mind, heart and strength could never be done justice visually.